Psychiatrist for Perimenopause in Trumansburg, NY

Helping women understand what’s changing—and what can actually help.

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You’ve started questioning whether this is your “new normal”...and that thought feels terrifying.

You’ve achieved so much of what you wanted—career, relationships, family life—but you still find yourself wondering,

“Is this really how life is supposed to feel?”

You’ve been thinking about things you “used to” do. You used to laugh more easily, have patience, and get a good night’s sleep. It was more natural for you to feel sharp, present, motivated, and connected to yourself (and the people around you).

But now, you’re completely overwhelmed, exhausted, forgetful, irritable…the list goes on. Sure, there’s part of you that wonders if you’re just burned out or “hormonal,” but it also feels like something is genuinely off. One minute you’re sweating through a conversation with someone for absolutely no reason, the next you’re lying awake at 3 am with your brain running a marathon of worst-case scenarios. 

You weren’t prepared for this, and more than anything, you just want to feel like yourself again.

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Perimenopause can look like…

  • Wondering why you suddenly have zero patience for things that never used to bother you
  • Desperately needing some sort of rest, but somehow still unable to shut your brain off
  • Walking into a room and completely forgetting why you went there in the first place
  • Feeling emotionally “raw” all the time—like your reactions are suddenly bigger, faster, and harder to control
    Exploding at your partner or kids and immediately thinking, “That didn’t even sound like me”
  • Struggling to focus, find words, or keep up in conversations (or at work) the way you used to
  • Feeling like everyday life became dramatically harder almost overnight
  • Wondering if you’re burned out, anxious, depressed, developing ADHD…or just losing yourself altogether
    
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HOW I CAN HELP

Feeling unlike yourself for long enough can start to feel permanent. It doesn’t have to be.

Some women benefit from estrogen or progesterone support, while others don’t—and part of this work is figuring out what’s likely to help without throwing ten different interventions at you all at once.

You shouldn’t have to accept feeling so terrible as “just part of getting older.”

My goal is to help you stop spiraling through conflicting advice, understand whether hormones may actually be contributing to how you feel, and create a clear plan that helps you feel like your best self.

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A lot of women come in confused and frustrated about what’s happening to them. They know something feels “off” or out of sync, but they can’t truly pinpoint what. That’s where we start.

Together, we’ll step back and look at the bigger picture—not just what’s happening right now, but the patterns across your life. We’ll explore your mental health history, your experiences with hormones over time, how your body and moods responded during different transitions (like periods, pregnancy, postpartum, or birth control), as well as your sleep, stress levels, and the symptoms affecting your quality of life most right now.

From there, we’ll build a thoughtful, step-by-step plan that actually makes sense for you. Depending on your needs, that may include:

  • Hormone therapy

  • Psychiatric medication

  • Therapy

  • Lifestyle changes

  • Supplements

  • Sleep support

  • A combination of approaches

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The goal here isn’t perfection or a solution that solves everything. We’re looking for relief.

With the right kind of treatment plan, over time, many women notice…

  • Their minds feel clearer and sharper again

  • They feel more proud of how they’re acting and more like themselves

  • Sleep becomes more restorative and predictable

  • Less fear around hormones, treatment, and “getting it wrong”

  • More confidence in their own body and decisions

  • Less pressure to keep piecing this together entirely alone

  • More understanding and clarity around what’s actually happening

Your hormones don’t exist separately from your mental health—and your care shouldn’t either.

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